[GOSSIP] 4 Major Reasons Why Many African Mother-In-Laws Don’t Like Their Daughter In Laws!
It’s very rare to see a mother-in-law loving her daughter-in-law like her own daughter or even close; at least getting along with her is a very rare scene. What is rampant is constant mother and daughter-in-law fights and quarrels leaving a confused son and husband wondering who to support.
The worst part about this mother-in-law drama is that the battered daughter-in-law who really needed the support of her mother-in-law also goes on to be a disturbing mother-in-law when her own son gets married. This brings me to a very big question: what’s with women and the melodrama of being a harsh mother-in-law? This question made me do some research, and I’d share my findings why mothers-in-law hardly love their daughter-in-law.
1. WOMEN DON’T TRUST WOMEN
One thing about women is that they don’t trust other women especially when it comes to marriage and if their son is rich. So, because of this perception, they see almost every other woman out there as evil. Most women warn their sons to be wary of women because of this negative perception that women can destroy a man, and they wouldn’t want that to happen to their son.
2. SHE SEES YOU AS A THREAT
Sometimes, it’s due to the fact that they have to come second in their son’s life; after nurturing him for many years to him becoming a man, not every mother would love to come second place afterwards. Many women see their daughter-in-law as a threat to their sons love and affection.
3. LOVE A SUBMISSIVE DAUGHTER-IN-LAW
A lot of mothers love a daughter-in-law that’s submissive or even over submissive to them. If they perceive you to be otherwise, they try to make life miserable for you. Women love a daughter-in-law that would do their will and wouldn’t come as a hindrance to their son.
4. THINKS NO ONE IS GOOD ENOUGH
One perception most mothers have is the belief that no woman is good enough for their son. Women are protective of their sons up to that point that they see other women as unworthy. This is probably the major reason they treat their daughter-in-law as inferior.
Mothers treating their daughter-in-law as inferior is a normal scenario and is mostly a cycle that follows every woman. The multi-million dollar question is: why don’t fathers-in-law have problems with their son or daughter-in-law?
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